Put Time Where Love Is
A fulfilling marriage begins when two people make time together their No.1 priority. If we hope to find love, we must first find time for loving.
Unfortunately, current psychology rests on the model of the independent ego. To make a lasting marriage we have to overcome self-centeredness. We must go beyond what psychologist Abraham Maslow call ”self-actualization” to “us-actualization”. We have to learn to put time where love is. Many couples have experienced a tragic moment that taught them to value their time together. One husband related how he sat trapped in his car after a crash. His wife was outside, crying and banging on the window. “I thought I was going to die before we had enough time together.” He told me. “Right then I promised to make the time to love my wife. Our time is our own now, and those hours are sacred.”